Matters of the Mind & Happenings at Heart

There's always a strong unknown correlation between your mind and the heart.

Mind's mysterious while heart's open

Mind always is worked out with working some or the other possibility; while heart is a little to lazy to work out.

Mind tries to control the complete body yet its conrolled by the heart(Not only philosophical but scientifically even)

Mind's manipulative and always wants 'You' and 'Yourself' to win while heart is happy to see others win as well (except for the people who are falsely heart broke when they lose)

Mind disturbs yet heart will always be looking for a new day, a new happening.

Mind is revengeful, whereas heart is forgiveful

Did we ever wonder who's stronger - Heart or Mind

Majority of us(who are still thinking by their mind) would admit its Mind; but in my perspective its Heart

Even after falling(or rather failing) so many times in 'LOVE' it will still take a try, make an attempt..; wheareas Mind will never take such a chance

Mind's calculative whereas heart's instantaneous.

Mind is futuristic or at times even stuck up in past.Heart's in the present, in the moment.

Your mind will runaway, what stays in this present moment is your heart.

Don't use your mind to make a choice,coz it will make a decision; let your heart choose.

I've seen doctors saying "You're weak at heart/ Dont be weak at heart".Actually you're just weak at you're thoughts & not at your heart.

So the most deciding part "Must be wondering ....Is this mind who has given thoughts to the heart OR heart which has feeded the feelings to the thoughts of the mind"...

The question and the exploration continues...coz "Matters of the Mind and happenings at the Heart...are both connected".....Sharing my heart rather than speaking what's on my mind ;)

Regards,

BK

About Aman Ki Asha TOI Campaign

A short episode to comment on TOI's new initiative..

Rastein par chalte hue...ek masum se insaan ko dekha... thoda sehma hua tha..aur thoda..naraaz bhi... har dafa dekh kar usko..madad ke liye dil lalcha sa jaata par har waqt yehi sochta, kya diya is insaan ne mujhe .. kabhi bhi shukriya tak ada nahi kiya.. balki grinha(gusse) se woh har baar meri taraf dekhta

aur kabhi muskarata...

shayad sochta hoga..

pagal hai jo har baar apna haath meri taraf de raha hai...

Aaj pata chal raha hai mujhe...

pagal main nahi tha..pagal woh tha jo har bar..

hath pakad nahi paya...diya maine aman ke liye uska saath..

jiska saath woh de naa paya..

is se na kuch fayda na kuch nuksaan hua...

bas hua yeh ki thode hi dinon mein woh insaan "insaan" hua...

chod diya hota agar main is prayas ko us hi din...

toh naa ban paya hota..woh insaan...insaan

aur aaj...na khula yeh aasman hota...

aur na koi insaan azaad hota...

yeh haath nahi badhaya tha maine sirf uske taraf

badhaya tha maine har us insaan ke taraf...

jo naraaz tha Aur jhuka hua tha apni hi nazaron mein apne aap se...

And thats how I like the Times of India initiative "Aman ki Aasha"...Thank you times and jang group for being generous enough to lend that helping hand...

Regards,

Bhavik Kothari

The passing thought of autumn

This day I don’t know what happened but wanted to write something on autumn, however very unclear with actually autumn means..I googled it out to find the actual meaning and found the correct definition.. a rather interesting one. The dictionary defined autumn as “The season of the year between summer and winter, lasting from the autumnal equinox to the winter solstice and from September to December in the Northern Hemisphere; fall.” Whereas the other one was quite interesting “A period of maturity verging on decline”.

To my surprise I still wonder what made me think on these lines and to write on the passing thought of autumn… Was it something related to my phase in life.. which was definitely not autumn but yes it did surely mean that I am going towards maturity rather growing towards maturity… and soon if ignored the nature’s cycle would lead to verge of decline.

I consoled myself seeing the trees around and their withering leaves coz every time I see a leaf falling , I immediately spot another two small little leaves making a new place , a new mark in that tree… And that’s what amazed rather amused me that “one need not worry about the autumn in one’s life because after every autumn and every fall there is a rise Now that’s when Spring comes…. And brings in a new spring of joy, freshness, creations and a lovely, unimagined yet unique, one that is full of energy and yet surprisingly new- a change for the better.

So whenever in this morning I wondered what autumn was about-- my heart wanted to ponder upon this season which I haven’t come across ever in my hearts’ atmosphere, but at the same time it went consoling that even if u come across this season don’t worry for there’s always a spring awaiting you…Enjoy the fall for a new spring awaiting!!!

Take care

Regards,

BK

The Wait

“The WAIT”

I waited for you, until I could wait any more

And I cried for long, until my eyes started to sore

Still remember our first date, those moments when eyes first met

That beautiful nature around, and that lake by which we initially sat

Those beautiful journeys which we travelled

And those lovely moments so closely felt

Although not physically but emotionally we were so close

However tough and bumpy the path we chose

I believe in the destiny that is going to bloom like rose

But today I waited at the same old spot

Where unfortunately my eyes couldn’t spot

I waited for you, until I could wait any more

And I cried for long, until my eyes started to sore

Those moments defined us and they truly did blend

Those were the episodes and lifetimes we could spend

We were together although we were far

Felt on the top of the world, connected with that supreme power

A feeling it was, that lasted not so long

And still wondering what went wrong

Looking back to the times we spend

My heart ponds for you, could not take a defeat

It still beats a subtle heartbeat

I waited for you, until I could wait any more

And I cried for long, until my eyes started to sore

All that has gone and all that will come

Has a pleasant surprise for me it seems

And that’s the reason why gods still keeps me in whims

I am happy that I have found you again

My heart would always cherish you for that period of pain

Feel that you were the one for me

It’s the roots, branches and the flowers that completes a tree

Just as both of us as two different individuals when meet make a “WE”

I am happy that I don’t have to wait anymore

And eyes would not have sore, had I seen you before

And here you are who kept me waiting

Was it love or my patience that you wanted to test

Whatever it was… the wait was worth

But dare you make me wait so long….Henceforth.

BK

A Thought To Ponder

Long Time No..See... Thats what my blog was saying to me when I visited today...Here I have the reason for you bloga..

All these days I was actually wondering what would happen when I get all that I ever wanted..Be it the best bank job.. a real friend.. a true love.. and lots many things..(which would be too silly to describe.)

Yeah and finally I did not have to ask anyone for sharing such an experience coz this time god wanted me to experience it myself..

Frankly speaking yes this time ..like everytime he did listen to me not in parts but in whole and gave me all that I ever wanted all at once.. difficult enough to handle...all of them... I thanked him and thanked him truly for being so generous...

But the only thing I wonder now about is....Is this some kinda dream which I am seeing with my eyes open...or is it all real...

One can easily go away with dreams..coz they are temporary and do not last long but when it actually comes to reality my heart starts beating faster...faster and still faster..coz I wonder about the persistence of the reality and the duration for which it would be with me.. Keeps my mind occupied with all such thoughts which although may not matter but have a lot of matter...

Like a simple ordinary human being it starts wondering and fearing about the possession... the privilege and the duration for which it would be with...

Although happy at the initial point, now it is asking a simple question.." How long is it gonna stay?...If it aint gonna stay longer than the time you were actually behind it... what was the whole purpose behind it.. And ya.. the most important aspect of Impermance... Anicha...Anicha..Anicha.. And thats where I stop thinking and accept the world.. the pleasures and the opportunities God has given ,me through this small gifts and taking them as they are without getting attached.. nor detached..."Just as It is''....

And ya.. sorry if it seemed to be bugging.. but that is what happens.. not to you.. or me.. but everyone and anyone who actually achieves this stage.. but he just stops his thinking near the line of fear.. and keeps wondering...which isn't the case here... So do try to think on the above mentioned lines and experience the difference as I did......

Regards,

BK

The Future through the Present Road

Hello once again!!! A long time though..Thanks to the fantastic exams we are going through!!!
Finally after a long two day exam affair I decide to get back to something which interests me.. "writing"...my self out to the world.. out to myself..
I always used to wonder at things which didnt have any future yet people loved to live...especially when one of my friends told about one such relationship she was in..Strange isn't it?? Yes indeed it is... And I am still wondering n pondering on this aspect...
How can one be together in the present when they are so uncertain about their future...
But these days, it seems that life is giving some unique answers....so here are a few of them..(in case if it conflicts with your view you are free to have ur opinions n appreciate mine..)
One example to quote... Have you ever driven on a dark street to..lets say from your place to Pune by your car...Do you see the road ahead...its just black dark...n all you have is those headlight which can only help you see next 10 meters of the road...the destination n the road simply seems to be so uncertain!!!! But do you drop the journey there itself... the answer is simply no... do you worry about how you would reach there..(Yes.. but you are prettty confident that you would make it there!!! using your headlights)
The same holds true for the path.. your journey in life .. you might know the destination or worse you might not know it... Life also has given you some headlights..which can help you probably see your way..atleast each day in the form of the present...
This anecdote bolstered my friends' opinion of how you can be with the present without (may be) the future...
Its not just this but many more things in the present we tend to miss out just in the haste to reach to our destination...(we rather hasten up the process to quickly pass out from the dark) and as a result we might meet up with an accident...
So the essence comes across very clear... let the present be..."Just Be" in whatever way it has to be.. irrespective of the uncertainities of the journey or the destination....
Cover each milestone through the headlight of your present to reach the destination....
That's what I would recommend for the day!!
Take Care,
Regards,
BK

The Big Question...Simple Answer

The day was good and so was the paper..(to people who are reading new.. I have my exams going on..) but it wasn't that great...Realised quite a few things.. how much do I like someone.. how much do I want to give to her.. and many more things on the same direction...
The problem lies that whenever she's near I can't talk much rather... we can't talk much... Thanks to all the external environmental forces in the picture... and when she's not close by... I miss her immensely...
The Big Question .. Does she feel the same way...
I happened to ask her this and realised what it meant for her being with me...
Although the question seemed to be Big enough the answer was simply superb....
"Don't you realise the moment when I message you even when I am with my friends.. implies that even though I am physically with the,m but mentally with you...
Even though I am with them and seem to be happy... I really think about you.. "
I realised that after a long time I have finally found some one who treasures.. me; cherishes the each moment we share (even though we arent physically present always) and cares for me everytime even though we aren't near...
But one thing I would like to confess... It has taken a lot of harshness and pain to make me realise...this...
But thank YOU.. (this is meant for you) who despite my impulsiveness and harshness (abruptness as you say it) is with me physically , emotionally and psychologically connected...
Thanks for being there...with me and for me as always..

Regards,
BK